The Humility of the Page: The Lost Ethics of Deep Reading
Why attention to words is attention to others and why it matters
““Love is the extremely difficult realisation that something other than oneself is real.” — Iris Murdoch1
There was a time, and not that long ago, when reading was seen not simply as an academic exercise or leisure activity, but as a moral act. To pick up a book was to willingly submit to another’s voice, another’s mind, another’s world. It was, in its quiet way, a gesture of humility. Today, that conception feels increasingly quaint, even anachronistic. In the age of infinite content and algorithmic suggestion, reading has become less an encounter with otherness than a sort of hyper-consumption of sameness where we feed on the familiar until the foreign becomes unpalatable.
The greatest intellectual flowering in my life happened in the 4 year period when I did my undergraduate and Masters degrees in literature. For four years, I read two or three books a week, then wrote about them and it shaped who I subsequently became. I wrote before about a vivid memory I have of reading Faulkner but another one was reading Frankenstein which I read in two days lying on a sofa in a friend’s house. There was no mobile phone, no Netflix and the internet wasn’t the attentional black hole it is today.
Looking back now I can see that what was happening: I was becoming unmoored from myself and the narrow orbit of my own concerns. The boundaries of my moral imagination were being stretched, gently but insistently, by voices far wiser and more complex than my own and I became a better person for it. The endeavour was transformative. To inhabit unfamiliar minds, to wrestle with conflicting ideas, to sit with discomfort rather than resolve it prematurely got me out of myself and fostered a kind of humility, a recognition that my instincts were not final.
Today, that kind of reading feels vanishingly rare now and not because the books are gone, but because the conditions that once sustained them have eroded. Solitude, slowness, and sustained attention are no longer default states but acts of resistance. And as those conditions erode, so too does the possibility of the moral work that deep reading once quietly performed.
We are being trained, not explicitly, but implicitly, to treat words as units of utility. Optimised, shortened, and surfaced by platforms whose guiding logic is not comprehension, but click-through. In such an environment, the act of reading becomes flattened: stripped of its reciprocity, its effort, its deliberateness. But something essential is lost in that flattening.
Much of the internet wants us to dwell in shallow, curated versions of our own minds. By encouraging us to constantly turn inward through personalised algorithms, we are no longer invited to encounter authentic otherness, but to loop endlessly within the contours of what we already know, believe, and prefer. We become trapped in a hall of increasingly vacuous mirrors, fed content that flatters, not confronts, until thinking itself feels like friction.
The Ethical Attention of Reading
In his 2005 commencement speech at Kenyon College, David Foster Wallace observed that "the really important kind of freedom involves attention, and awareness, and discipline... and the ability to truly care about other people."2 In this light, reading, real reading, is an ethical practice. It is the discipline of giving sustained, generous attention to the interior life of another. To read carefully is to say: your words matter; your complexity matters; your thought, even if difficult or dissonant, matters. It is to suspend our impulse to reply, to judge, to scroll away. And in that suspension, something else arises: empathy, reflection, even transformation.
This is what distinguishes authentic reading from content consumption. The former demands presence. The latter rewards speed. In a culture increasingly structured around frictionless information and engineered virality, this kind of attention has become countercultural.

The Algorithm Has No Soul
The problem is not simply that machines are generating content. It’s that humans are beginning to read, and worse, write, as if they were machines. The “edited self” becomes not only a mode of presentation, but a mode of perception. What cannot be captured in a headline, summarised in a swipeable carousel, or condensed into an extractable quote risks being ignored altogether.
But moral life, like literature, does not lend itself to compression. Moral life is ambiguous, contradictory, unresolved. It resists the efficiencies of the feed. A Tolstoy novel is not a tweetstorm. A James Baldwin essay does not reveal itself in the first line. These works require patience, context, and re-reading. And in asking that of us, they elevate us. They ask us to become more than we are. To wrestle with injustice, to sit with ambiguity, to see the world through eyes not our own.
The algorithm, by contrast, is indifferent to all of this. It cares not for meaning, only for movement. It is designed not to deepen our perception, but to refine our preferences. And in doing so, it risks making our inner lives as shallow as the content it serves.
The Reader as Citizen
This is not just a private loss. It is a civic one. Without the capacity to dwell in difference, to engage with arguments we do not agree with, or to follow a thread longer than 280 characters, we become intellectually and morally brittle. We lose the very qualities that democratic life depends upon: empathy, nuance, deliberation.
Deep reading, particularly of literature, philosophy, and reflective prose, offers not just insight, but rehearsal. It trains us in the moral dispositions that public life requires: attention, imagination, restraint. To give ourselves to a complex text is to practice the patience we need for one another. It is a rehearsal in understanding before judging, listening before reacting. This is not merely a virtue. It is a survival skill for pluralistic, tolerant society.
Reading, in the end, is an act of faith. Faith that other minds matter, that complexity deserves our patience, that truth emerges not from confirmation but from confrontation with difference. It is the wager that spending time with Tolstoy or Baldwin or any voice that challenges us will make us more than we were before. In an age that measures everything by metrics of engagement and efficiency, this faith feels almost quaint. But it is precisely this quaintness that makes it revolutionary. To read deeply is to insist that some things, wisdom, empathy, the expansion of human understanding, cannot be optimised, only experienced. It is to choose the difficult gift of another's mind over the easy comfort of our own. I miss it.
Murdoch, Iris. The Sovereignty of Good. London: Routledge Classics, 2001 (originally published 1970).
Wallace, David Foster. "This Is Water: Some Thoughts, Delivered on a Significant Occasion, about Living a Compassionate Life." Kenyon College Commencement Address, Gambier, OH, 21 May 2005.
This is a piece that is both brilliant and beautiful--a rare combination. As a former high school English teacher, I share many of your experiences. But as a current reading specialist working at the elementary school level, I took a different stance in this piece: Can We Inspire a Love of Reading? (https://harriettjanetos.substack.com/p/can-we-inspire-a-love-of-reading?r=5spuf) without negating your primary points. I'm going to use this piece as a springboard for a follow-up. And I will certainly reread it so that I can quote liberally. Thank you for this amazing contribution to near-perfect prose.
This was beautiful. A few weeks ago, my youngest daughter told me what she thinks is wrong with her peers: they're not readers. In her words, reading and writing fiction has always taught her empathy, then concluded that her own future children will be readers.
The benefit of having another reader in the family is that I receive great books from her on holidays.